Feminist Media

Taking Back the Media

Posts tagged Taylor Swift

71 notes

What do you think of Taylor Swift?

whatfreshhellisthis:

-Anonymous

I think many things of Taylor Swift. 

I think she uses the misogyny rampant in our culture to her advantage and she does it very well. A permanently virginal girl-child all in white who writes songs about ever lasting heterosexual love, confirmed in matrimony, and the nasty, nasty b*tches who try to ruin that dream for her (either by dating the boy she wants to date or by ‘tempting’ the boy she is currently dating), she is the epitome of Culturally Acceptable sex-is-what-BAD-girls-do-and-I-am-a-GOOD-girl pop fluff.

Taylor swift is neither sexual nor sexualised- she is the girl you’re supposed to be proud to bring home to Mum; pretty, sweet, and above all ‘innocent’.

Taylor Swift is the embodiment of the virginity myth. She is ‘pure’ because she’s virginal.

Is this a bad thing? On an individual level; not really. It’s not bad to be any of the things that Taylor Swift is. But the thing that she’s selling is that she is awesome because she is pure, innocent, virginal, and that any woman who is not those things is a bad, nasty, evil temptress.

It bases a woman’s worth entirely on her perceived ’purity’.

Much in the same way that Gaga’s acceptability is rooted in society’s bigotry against bisexual people [IE: we as a culture pretend that Gaga is straight until we want her to titillate us], it’s society’s prejudices that make Taylor Swift’s anthems of internalised misogyny so incredibly acceptable, and- more importantly- sellable.

0 notes

ideservesomeapplause asked: Before I start, I must tell you that I'm a die-hard, over-obsessed Taylor fan. But this doesn't means that I think she can do no wrong. Hell, of course she will. We all have flaws. But on the other hand, this also doesn't mean I agree with everything you've written about her. I think you're a bit harsh.

My point is... Have you ever heard the song 'Sparks Fly'. While talking about sexism, I think you should've shown this song as an example. It has lyrics like 'You touch me once and it's really something/you find I'm even better than you imagined I would be' 'Get me with those green eyes baby/as the lights go down/gimme something that'll haunt me when you're not around'
English is not my native language but don't you think these lines imply sex?
Oh, and if you agree with me, don't you think this can change her 'forever-virgin' image that you criticize?

I have heard “Sparks Fly,” the official and unofficial version. I honestly cannot believe I forgot the song. I feel rather ridiculous now. I would have put “Sparks Fly” under the “not a feminist nightmare,” because in the song she is owning her sexuality! She is not playing into the “virgin/whore” dichotomy in the song. She is not shaming anyone for being sexual, but owning those feelings. She is not trying to be the “good” girl or shaming others for being the “bad” girl. She is just owning the pleasure she gets for being with her partner. The line “you find I’m even better than you imagined I would be,” implies she is her own person and not the person people assumed she would be. She is enjoying herself and her partner. I wish more of her songs were like “Sparks Fly.”

-Lisa 

Sparks Fly Lyrics.

2 notes

Anonymous asked: I love, admire and respect Taylor Swift and everything she chooses to be.
I don't get why is it wrong to be a "good girl". I hate that she get slammed for who she is. I hate that some people say that she's a "fake" because of her "surprised" expressions. She's just excitable and thankful for what she had given. I've met her and for sure she's not a fake. She's so real, sweet, nice and intelligent. She said that, she looked at winning awards like it's her last time and react/celebrate like it's her last time....she's just appreciative because what if she didn't win awards anymore. What is wrong with that? I hate that she's getting so much hate because she's just real and not afraid and have the guts to show her feelings through her songs.

On her songs, there are other songs that are not about "love and boys". And even if she writes all about "love and boys", why is that a problem? 99% of music is about love.
Change, The Best Day, Tied Together with a Smile, A Place in this World, The Outside, Innocent, Long Live, Mean, Never Grow Up are songs that are not about "boys".
On "Fifteen", I agree that "that line" can be interpreted 2 ways (having sex and just giving her bf her time, effort, loyalty and love then broke her heart). Let's just say that the meaning of that is "having sex" and she's giving advice that it might be wrong because the teenagers might get pregnant and there's so much more you can be than being pregnant at 13. What's the problem with that?
I agree that sometimes she has her moments like "Better than Revenge" but I get where she's coming from and I love that song.

I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just explaining. Sorry this is ridiculously long but I just don't get the hate and seriously "feminist worst nightmare"? seriously? I think there's many more worst than her.

I just...just I can identify with her and I felt like women like me are wrong because of being a "good girl". You know, you can be intelligent, strong, successful, independent and be a good girl at the same time like her. And honestly she inspired me to follow my dreams, love myself and be a good person.

Sorry this so long...I hope you don't take this as a hate rant cause it isn't...I'm just giving my opinion. You would probably hate everything about this but...at least I said this.

I hope Lisa doesn’t mind my partially answering this, but the problem isn’t in what she does in her personal life. This is not an attack on Taylor Swift: The Person, because we don’t know her. You don’t know her, either. However, we do know Taylor Swift: The Madonna. Taylor Swift: The Madonna tells the little girls who look up to her that boys are perfect and girls are not. Taylor Swift: The Madonna tells girls that a large part of their worth is in (read: female) virginity. There is nothing wrong with being “sweet” or writing about about love and boys, but that isn’t why Swift is a “feminist nightmare.”

also…”good girl”? What is that supposed to mean? No, really, I’d like you to answer that without slutshaming.

-foodieamazon

_______

I don’t mind you answering the question. I just want to ad my .02 cents, even though I completely agree with you. I’ll respond to Fifteen and her music since I am probably the only person on this blog who actively listens to it. I’m currently listening to “Tell Me Why.” The problem with Fifteen is that it implies Abigail did have sex and it shamed her (and any girl like her) for having sex. The song, indirectly since she doesn’t come out and say “Abigail is a slut,” slut-shames girls who aren’t “good girls.” The video implies Abigail did have sex and that it was the biggest mistake of her life. It implies girls cannot have sex as teenagers without regretting that and that alienates teenagers who have sex. Instead of being open about sexuality, she is telling girls to just not have sex. Which is problematic. We also live in a culture that does not support teen mothers and just vilifies them as sluts, like you not so eloquently did anon.

Anon, neither of us know Taylor. We know her public persona but we aren’t friends with her. I’ve met Lea Michelle from Glee and thought she was a big sweetheart. She could be a horrid person in real life, I’m not friends with her. You met Taylor for as long as I’ve met Lea. We don’t know either women. While I have no doubt in my mind she loves her fans, that doesn’t mean she is the sweetest person in the world. We do not personally know her. While I do believe she appreciates her fans a million times more than Lady Gaga does, that does not make her a saint. She has written songs for her fans, done 13+ hour meet & greets, hangs out with some of them after shows, etc. She truly does seem like a sweet person but she clearly has a mean streak, think “Better than Revenge.” Don’t blow sun-shine up her ass, she doesn’t deserve it. Taylor Swift is a brilliant woman.

I also never said she was a feminist worst nightmare. I gave reasons for why she is not a feminist nightmare and why she is. It is up to the readers of the blog to decide if they think she is. I personally think she has her moments where she is not a feminist nightmare and moments when she is. I am a huge fan of Taylor Swift and have been for years. I’ve been a fan prior to her self-titled going platinum. I have the utmost respect for her and to an extent do look up to her. She is only a year older than me and living her dream. There are many reasons why girls should look up to her, some of her lyrics are not one of them.

Okay, so my .02 cents turned into like 20 bucks, but I can talk about Taylor Swift. 

2 notes

loveswamp asked: While I pretty much agree with everything you said about Taylor Swift, I think one reason why she isn't a feminist nightmare is because she openly dates men she wants to date, men a lot of women wish they could date (John Mayer, Joe Jonas, Taylor Lautner) and when break ups happen, she doesn't pretend nothing happened. She writes (sometimes crappy) songs about it. But, she COULD be more honest and less childish in her songwriting (i.e. revenge & accusing that girl of being a slut for dating her ex). I don't really know where I was going with this. Good article!

That is a good point. I honestly didn’t think about that. Even though some of the songs are beyond crap (“Better than Revenge” for example), she is being open and honest about her feelings. She has stated many times the songs are cathartic for her and a way for her to process her emotions. So yes, she is not completely a feminist nightmare. There are qualities to her that are feminist in nature. -Lisa

110 notes

Taylor Swift -Feminist Nightmare or Not?

[description: Photo of Taylor Swift playing guitar. Taylor is a white blond girl. Her hair is pinned up in a braid and she is wearing a red, blue, and white plaid shirt. She is playing a wood acoustic guitar and singing into a microphone] 

Before I critique Taylor, I want to state I am actually a fan of her. Liz (goodbyemidnight) will forever make fun of me for that. My one professor wont let me live it down. I will have many posts about Taylor and her music. 

Fairy tales, princesses, girl-on-girl hate, crushes, boys, butchering Shakespeare, heart break, first love, body image, high school, and cheating ex’s. We all know who Taylor is. She is your stereotypical “American Girl” (blond hair, thin, chaste, etc) but is making millions of dollars.

Reasons why she is not a feminist nightmare:

  1. She controls her own career. She has decided the fate of her career since she was 13 years old and giving demo’s to record labels. She worked for Sony (Capital Records maybe? Hell, I don’t remember which one) on a trial basis when she was 13 and could have continued doing that until they decided they wanted to hire her. She told them no and had no record label until she was 15 and met Scott Borchetta who started Big Machine Records. She was their first artist. She is also their most well known/best selling artist. She has controlled what was on all her albums while with Big Machine Records.
  2. Her song “Tied Together With a Smile” which was written for a friend with an eating disorder (that is all I am going to say about ED, otherwise I’d have a trigger warning). Lyrics to the song, though they do not mention the eating disorder. 
  3. While some of the songs are beyond awful, she writes her own music and performs her own music. 

So that is all I’ve got for why she isn’t a feminist nightmare.

Why she is a feminist nightmare:

  1. Her lyrics. In her music there is girl-on-girl hate, heterosexism, sexism, slut-shaming, treating people like things and not people, etc. While there is nothing wrong with writing about fairy tales, love, high school, dating, etc. it is a problem when you put in everything listed before. Her most problematic songs: “Better than Revenge,” “You Belong to Me,” “Picture to Burn,” and  ”Fifteen.”
  2. “Better than Revenge” is just one big old slut-shaming song.
    Chorus of the song:
    She’s not a saint and she’s not what you think
    She’s an actress, Whoa
    She’s better known for the things that she does
    On the mattress, Whoa
    Soon she’s gonna find
    Stealing other people’s toys on the playground
    Won’t make you many friends
    She should keep in mind,
    She should keep in mind
    There is nothing I do better than revenge, Ha
    While I think Joe Jonas is a horrid singer and have many problems with the JoBro’s, it is not okay to view men (or anybody) as a toy. That is dehumanizing and degrading. I don’t remember who “stole Joe” from Taylor, ‘cause I frankly don’t care, but implying that she is a dirty slut is not cool. Slut-shaming is never okay and shaming women for their sexuality is problematic. It is upholding the notion that women are only worth something if they are virginal. I will probably do a whole post on this song and how the media viewed Taylor/Joe’s break up. So I’ll go more into this song and the other songs about Joe in a different post. 
  3. “You Belong With Me” is problematic for similar reasons as “Better than Revenge.” Austro Saddle and Bitch Magazine have post about YBWM. Bitch also critiques “Fifteen,” which is another problematic song.
  4. “Fifteen.” The whole ‘you cannot have sex with your high school boyfriend or you will regret it forever’ message isn’t cool. Bitch Magazines article about the song and YBWM. 
  5. “Picture to Burn,” is incredibly heterosexist and ableist. I wrote a post about that on feminist slut. Ableism- using obsessive and crazy to mean something bad. Heterosexism - lying about ex’s sexuality because being gay is oh-so-horrible. -rolleyes- Taylor did remove the line about lying about her ex’s sexuality when the song became a single, not that it makes the line any better. 
  6. The “Back to December” video. The song is about Taylor Lautner. The guy in the music video for the song is a fucking pale white guy. While I now try to avoid anything with Twilight like the plague, I do know Lautner isn’t as pale as a freaking ghost. Even in the song there is a line about his tan skin. The guy in the video would probably burn in the sun, not tan. 
  7. Her public image. The whole virgin goody-girl image. The shocked look on her face whenever she wins an award because she is never expecting it. Once you win 4 Grammy’s in one night, are you really surprised that you win awards anymore? The whole “I can do no wrong” thing has gotten old. I could go on about her image, but that will be in its own post. Bitch Magazine actually just had a really good article about her in their Spring 11 issue. 

There is more I can (and will) say about Taylor Swift but I’ll save it for another post. Each bullet point as to why she is a feminist nightmare can easily turn into their own post.